Gay Bar dances on the edge of that third space between fiction and nonfiction, a space often reserved for poetry. Washington's General (Holt), a biography of Nathanael Greene.Jeremy Atherton Lin’s beautiful, lyrical memoir, Gay Bar: Why We Went Out, cloaks lived history in learned history, examining an objective subject - gay bars - to create a highly subjective object: a book about his life, flensed down to just the bits that made it past the bouncer. He is also the author of the recently published Moehringer's lovely evocation of an ordinary place filled with ordinary people gives dignity and meaning to those lost lives, and to his own. He describes his cousin's mother, Charlene Byrne, as she grieved: "Charlene was crying, the kind of crying I could tell would last for years."Īnd so it has, in Manhasset and so many other Long Island commuter towns. , to New York to mourn and comfort old friends. Moehringer drove from Denver, where he was based as a correspondent for the Times One was a bartender we've met along the way. On September 11, 2001, almost 50 souls who lived and loved in Moehringer's home town of Manhasset were killed in the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center. 's emotional climax comes after its native son has found success as a journalist for the Los Angeles Times For young J.R., that place was a gin mill on Plandome Road where his Uncle Charlie was a bartender and a patron. "Everyone has a holy place, a refuge, where their heart is purer, their mind clearer, where they feel close to God or love or truth or whatever it is they happen to worship," he writes. But while still tender of years, he was introduced to the culture, to the companionship and-yes-to the romance of it all.
Moehringer grew up in Manhasset, a place, he writes, that "believed in booze." At a young age, he became a regular-not a drinker, of course, for he was far too young.
seeks out the companionship of male role models in place of his absent father, where he receives an education that has served him well in his career and where, inevitably, he looks for love, bemoans its absence and mourns its loss. But more than anything else, Moehringer's book is a homage to the culture of the local pub. Is the story of a young man who knows his father only as "The Voice," of a single mother struggling to make a better life for her son, and of a riotously dysfunctional family from Long Island. , has written a memoir that explains it all, and then some. Moehringer, a Pulitzer Prize–winning writer for the Los Angeles Times But perhaps it does take a writer to explain the appeal of these places that ought to offend us on any number of levels-they often smell bad, the decor generally is best viewed through bloodshot eyes and, by night's end, they usually do not offer an uplifting vision of the human condition.Īh, but what would we do without them, and what would we do without the companionship of fellow pilgrims whose journey through life requires the assistance of a drop or two? You needn't be a writer to appreciate the romance of the corner tavern-or, for that matter, of the local dive in a suburban strip mall.